How do people loose their nudism?

by Dave

My name is Dave. If ever I had the honor of meeting you personally, clothed in the heaviest foul-weather gear, you would have no doubt as to my sex.

Now, cover your eyes for 3 seconds and think about what you have just read.

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I guess by now, my cover is blown no matter how much I try to cover my sexuality!
Most are afraid of nudity because they have been taught to relate nakedness with sex. That is most unfortunate because sex has nothing to do with nudism, but it is always our onus to explain or prove it. The proof is in the headlines.
Nudists are not rapists or pedaphiles. Rapists and pedaphiles are found in "respected places". and by "trusted people", not at nudist resorts, beaches, and clubs because it is not in our nature to abuse other people.

Most of us agree that skimpy bathing suites are designed and worn for display purposes. Thongs are textiles way of displaying sexuality. On public beaches, we don't care what is worn, we don't like it, but do wear bathing "costumes", not thongs.
At our venues, we don't go around neked to be on display, we are naked because that is how we are supposed to be and it is so comfortable!.
In our environment, we don't care who's looking at us. We are happy in our homes, at secluded beaches, or in our parks and resorts.

Without covert sexual thoughts, since the name of this author is Dave, your thought processes would "know" that I have a penis and testicles - not a vagina or mammary glands. 

About Nudists

Nudists are people who practice nudity for reasons of health or religion.   The word "Naturist" is a synonym of Nudist,  I AM A NUDIST!

I didn't capitalize "I AM A NUDIST" because of contempt but rather respect for myself and others. Today, my respect for others is self-contained. My parents taught me to respect others,

I understood one part of respect - I knew how to give it. But it's taken me many years to learn how to receive respect. Today, I don't look for respect because it's everywhere.

Notice, I said earlier that "The word nudist is ascribed to people who accept and respect their bodies.."

If you are a woman reading this, do you think that if you saw me neked I would run after you with an erection for sexual gratification? The answer is contained in the following! Unfortunately there are many women who feel the same threat about seeing a neked man. THAT IS NOT MY FAULT AND IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT EITHER!

Self respect is what separates us nudists from people who have lost their nudist lifestyle. Of course we are all born nudists, therefore a nudist lifestyle could only be lost! Nudism is not about sex! Nudism is about body acceptance and enjoying the life that God has given us. Back when your mind wasn't corrupted with vices, you were a nudist.

Nudists are innocent of sexual exploitation of others. Of course we have the same needs, but we are in control of our actions. We don't let "sex" get in the way of our life. Do you have the moral fortitude to "control" yourself at a clothes-free beach? We do because we not only have self respect but we respect others. We are not a "higher life-form", we have just learned to accept others.

Adult nudists are never surprised about the hypocrisy in how an guy can drop his drawers at the first chance to penetrate someone or something, AND the girl who achieves her comfort level to strip off her clothes so that a guy can satisfy her. But they can't accept naturlism because their thinking is corrupted by teaching.

I am Shocked!

There are people who are actually "shocked by the nudist lifestyle" can easily denigrate their bodies. Have they lost their minds?

It never surprises me when a person finds out that I am a nudist, some respond with shock, others are amused or amazed.

Usually, the level of shock is concurrent with the person's intelligence and teaching about nudity. People who are not the brightest bulbs in the crowd are usually the people who are shocked the most. I call it "The Shock Factor." (IxN=S) Intelligence x Body Acceptance = Shock

FYI, My parents were prudish and taught my siblings and I to be ashamed of our bodies. I dropped-out of High School to enlist in the Navy during Viet Nam. I earned my GED while traveling all over Europe while my classmates were still worried about exams, homework, zits. sex and other inconsequential issues of young adults stuck in the world of government schools.

After my enlistment, I went on to college to earn a degree! Of course my GPA usually hovered around 3.0, but I didn't care then and I don't care 30 years later!



How did I become a NUDIST?





I was born that way!

I accepted body freedom about twenty years ago. It was during my first marriage. My wife knew what my neked body looked like and I knew what her neked body looked like. We were very casual about nudity. I inseminated my wife and she gave birth to our first child. We created two more children and still enjoyed nekedness in the home, I never thought about teaching my children to be ashamed of their bodies. I never thought about corrupting the minds of innocent children,

Of course, before I was married, I was a wild and crazy guy. I could strip my clothes off in a flash if a girl gave me the gateway to my orgasm. Strange, I could expose my erect penis before a stranger, but I was ashamed to expose it before anyone else. I am proud that I have accepted the life that God has given me, instead of the hang-ups that I learned as a child.

The Development of a Nudist

God gave us life, as he has given to fawns, puppies, kittens, and all other animals. Of course we believe that we are a higher order of life than the these other beautiful creations. We are presented to this world as equals, but parents, siblings, family, peers and strangers teach us that we are above everyone else and all of these people indoctrinate us into their own beliefs. Only problem; is what is right? A life of nudism or covered?

Of course we would want our parents to be right and sometimes we hope our siblings are right, but some parents have been taught flawed beliefs of shame, for generations!

Philosophically Speaking

It's not our parents fault that we have been taught shame, it's not God's fault - He was just angered because they ate from the tree. God never told Adam & Eve that they must wear clothes. Blame Adam and Eve, shame was their idea.

We have been gaven life, nude. As infants our naked bodies are exposed to anyone who changes our diapers or are just curious.

As infants our minds haven't been corrupted, we haven't learned about baby making, stealing, murder, rape, or anything else that turns several into criminals. We are born innocent. In our innocence, we splish splash in the bathtub, we run around wearing only our birthday suits and we have no shame because we haven't been taught shame.

Parents Teach Their Children to be Ashamed

Most parents have no problem allowing their baby to walk around naked. Most babies are even bathed in the same tub with their parent or other babies. After a certain age in a parent's life, the baby is taught shame.

The sexual organs of baby boys are always exposed to judgement, comment, and laughs!   This just goes to show you that as an infant, we are accepted nude by our parents.

When are we taught corruption?

They can joke about how tiny the baby boy's penis is, or how large the testicles are. Of course, the infant doesn't know that you make light about his privates, therefore, no harm.

When girls hit puberty, they are bought "training bras" to indoctrinate them into a lifestyle of bondage. Training Bras should be called "Indoctrination Bras". I have no idea why most people wear clothes. It is a fact, 100% of all people are born without clothes - so what's the big deal with the neked body? Maybe there is something wrong with peoples' thinking.

Have you been indoctrinated into a lifestyle of shame? Study our lifestyle, do a little research and you will find that it is easy to be a nudist, because we all want freedom.

Children who were raised as nudists have much more respect for others and they excel in school work because they have no hang-ups. They have very high self esteeme.